To All The Men Who Don't Wear Their Wedding Ring:

Listen up guys. If you said the vows, wear the ring.

To all the men who don't wear their wedding ring when out in public...put it on your finger! Too many times do you give off the wrong impression, and you give single women hope.

I hit on a married guy! Something I would never do in a million years. I'd been crushing on "Tri-Guy" from the gym for so long and finally, just finally, I had mustered up the guts to ask him to hang out outside of the gym. He said yes and suggested we exchange #'s. You can only imagine how EXCITED I was. Here comes the kicker: he is married. Now you can only imagine how NOT excited I am. We never hung out. He felt guilty and suggested that we only hang when we see each other at the gym. Okay, that's fine, no biggie, right? But WTF? Why wouldn't he just say from the get go he had a wife? I felt like the BIGGEST jackass, even though I know it had nothing to do w/ me and non of this was my fault. Word to the wise, guys...wear your ring & don't disrespect your wife.

So Annoyed.

I'm so annoyed! I'm not perfect, I'll throw that disclaimer out there right now, because I'm about the BITCH a lil bit about some peeps in my life. I'm annoyed w/ those peeps who talk, talk, talk, talk, talk, but never deliver. They are oh so PREDICTABLE. Sure, there might not be anything wrong w/ being predictable, I mean, for one you already know what you're gonna get w/ that person, but here's the thing... when it's not benefiting you or the other person, well, what's the point? Right? Why make an effort when the person you are dealing w/ has their "blinders" on all of the time and just doesn't give a shit? Again, what's the point? I don't have a lot of close friends out here in L.A., cause well, it's L.A., but some of the ones I do have I am tempted to leave behind. I've been realizing a few things about myself lately, like what I really need in my life, and part of me doesn't think I need these peeps in my life. It might be time to say adios. I'm not one to burn bridges, that's not my thing, but I'm just thinking I need to distance myself. I need some new friends. I need peeps w/ common interests, who have drive, motivation, and ambition. Peeps who care for one another and want to push me to be a better person, etc... I don't need peeps who can't make up their minds, need me to make decisions for them, and are just about indecisive about everything that presents itself to them. I'm not a mom yet, and I don't need to play one to my friends.

Okay, I vented. I released. I let it all out! I sorta feel better, but all in all I think it's time for a few changes in my life.