We all do it. We jump to conclusions, and we definitely jump to conclusions and assumptions when it comes to the opposite sex. Why? Why do we do this all the time? Why can't we just ask? Why can't we just be open and honest and ask questions?
So a few of my friends and others included are having some major boy drama(s) these days. It makes me crazy altogether just to hear about their shit. I mean, from an outsider's p.o.v. it's just way too simple, ya know. But when you're actually the one in the relationship, well, there is just much more to it (believe me, I get it). I've been victim to it all as well, so...as women we are just so quick to jump to conclusion. We get irrational and we make up crazy stuff in our heads. We make excuses for the male species and it's really fucking ridiculous. Oh the things we do for love. Or is it lust? Whatever it is it can't really be that worth it in the end can it? I mean, the stress, the confusion, the let downs, the crying, the fights, the bullshit...I mean, is it really worth it? We all deserve so much more, right? When is enough enough?
If you like someone, tell them. If you wanna be w/ someone, let them know. If you wanna keep things casual, again, let it be known. All in all, communicate. Share your feelings and be honest. Neither one of the sexes can read minds (thank god).
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